Jennifer Lopez has learned to put any bitter feelings towards her ex-husband Marc Anthony behind her for the sake of their four-year-old twins Emme and Max, and says they will be forever linked by the love they share for their children. Jennifer smiled and said, “We have out moments! Don’t get me wrong, something obviously wasn’t perfect there. But the truth is there’s love there with us. We were great friends before we got married. And now we have two babies.”
Jennifer continued, “Our main goal is to just not mess them up! We need to make sure that we are what they need us to be first. Our feelings and our struggles come second. The love that we share in common for those kids comes first.” The curvaceous brunette, who is dating dancer and choreographer Casper Smart, admits to practicing a very lenient style of parenting, but says she can’t help but dote on her children. Jennifer, 43, told Britain’s OK! magazine, “If you ask people around me, they will say no I’m not [a tough mother]. They say that I need to be tougher. But I feel like when I am with my babies, I just want to love them!”
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Jennifer Lopez, who has gotten divorced three times and recently celebrated her one year anniversary with her twenty-five year old dancer boyfriend, is said to be taking no chances about their future together and asked him to sign a non-disclosure agreement. A source told gossip website RadarOnline, “Casper signed a non-disclosure/confidentiality agreement when he began working for Jennifer Lopez, as she requires all of her employees to do. Jen has been around long enough to know that anyone she dates could possibly turn on her and choose to go to the press if the relationship sours.”
The insider revealed that Casper was only too happy to sign the legal document, which will prevent him for ever discussing their professional and private relationship if they split, much to Jennifer’s delight. The source said: “Casper had absolutely no qualms about signing the agreement, and has told Jen on multiple occasions that even if he didn’t work for her, he would have signed the contract. Jen loves him even more for that.” The couple, who are currently in Germany on European leg of the singer’s Dance Again tour, began dating just months after Jennifer separated for her third husband of seven years Marc Anthony with whom she shares four-year-old twins Emme and Max.